Couples Testimonials
We had such an eye opening and informative session with you. We will continuously reflect back on this and use what we have learned to improve our relationship. We are very grateful to have had this opportunity with you.- Nerissa Oct 2020
We are both doing well. I believe our relationship grew even stronger since the last time you saw us. Again, thank you for your guidance in helping us get through the tough times – Elana 30/01/2019
Thank you for checking in, we are doing great, somehow you managed to shift something in my head, and I see our relationship in a complete different way. We will most definitely use you for any future issues, you are the first person we met with that didn’t lay the blame on someone, but helped us both to see our relationship from a different angle. Wow wow wow….. how can I ever thank you enough! Liana 07/07/2016
Mancave Testimonials
Hi Paula, having these sessions with you in the ManCave is really changing the way I see and do things. I have really found great value in what you are teaching us. – Jerome 27/3/2017
As I’ve mentioned to you last night I was truly inspired by the work that you do and the lives that you transform and if we can play a small role in giving you a platform through the show, to showcase what you do, we’d be happy to have you in the new season – Cornelius Koopman (Senior Producer: The Home Channel, DStv, Channel 176) 13/3/2017
Womenology Testimonials
Having attended one of Paula’s courses have taught me viable skills to enhance future relationships not only in my personal life but also in corporate. If you need to improve in yourself, learn skills to self control then I would recommend you join Paula in one of her courses. You need to have the willingness to change your situation in certain relationships, improve your self esteem, focus on yourself to improve your relationships in all areas of your life, bring a positive outlook into your thinking and change your mindset about courageous conversations with difficult people! Invest in your authentic self, step out of your comfort zone and grow into a magnificent human being! Paula provides you with the necessary skills to improve your relationships with life. – Coba (2017)
I did Paula’s 6 month Womenology program and it was a life changer for me. For any woman who needs to re-assess where they are in their life and how to better themselves as a person then this course is for you. Best decision of 2017 for me. Thanks again Paula for all the additional support through all the changes I have made and am making in my life. Your program has been invaluable to me. – Kathryn Main (2017)
Building Relationships Workshop Testimonials
Hi Paula, I just wanted to say thank you for the workshop this past weekend. It was rather eye opening and insightful. We will be looking at doing couples session in the new year. – Candice – 16/11/2019
We have implemented a few new aspects from your workshop as well as the book love languages. We now do a hike together once per week, which I look forward to each week. – Simone 5/09/2018
I cannot stop talking about it! This is actually a workshop for every couple to do before marriage….my opinion. In gratitude, your Biggest Fan! – Wendy – 3/6/2018 CT
I was quite shaken up afterwards – more angry with myself for not doing this type of self work earlier on before I got married but lessons get learnt and shape us, don’t they. Thank YOU!!!! – Christine 3/6/2018 CT
Thanks Paula, it was a fantastic workshop! – Anjana 2/6/2018
Thank you for yesterday, it was really eye opening – Dalene 2/6/2018
Hi Paula, thank you for Saturday! I feel so inspired! Our marriage is/was literally on the rocks, and hoping that this is the start to a New Conscious Beginning. – Monique 29/5/2017
Hi Paula, I just would like to thank you for an amazing afternoon, you have really helped us with some key issues and we will most certainly be back for more coaching and insight. Thank you for your passion and enthusiasm. You made a big difference. – Liana 03/14/2016
Individual Testimonials
Hi Paula, I wanted to share a win with you: As you may recall, I was desperately keen to make a success of a project to restore some of the reputation pains that I had suffered earlier last year. Well, a colleague and I designed and built a proof-of-concept system that impressed our development manager to the extent that we were requested to demo it to Exco. They were completely blown away and upgraded the priority of our project and we now have a full support team. Our project has also been nominated for an Innovations award as it represents a saving to the company in excess of R750K per year going forward! Your help has been amazing in guiding me to reconnect with myself – the value is so much greater than rands and cents, thank you. – Vernon 13/01/2018
Thank you very much for the session, I am actually more positive and do fun stuff. On the business side I see more opportunities I did not see before. I have hired two interns in the business which is relieving the pressure. Personally, I sat for an hour in a restaurant reading a magazine, I now watch movies after work. I actually played outside and sat in a tent with my little one last week Saturday. I laugh and smile a lot. – Inno 13/6/2017
I had the privilege of meeting Paula during a running coaching clinic and was immediately impressed with her warm personality and high level of motivation. As a powerlifter, I didn’t know much about running but I was eager to learn. We started the day with a couple of running sessions where Paula taught us how to run using the following motivational elements as part of your running toolbox 1) Breathe rhythmically while running 2) Have a mantra when you run 3) Make yourself as tall as you can be and run with your head held high It was incredible how altering little things while running can alter the outcome. What I did not realise, at the time, was that what I have learnt from Paula would also assist me in powerlifting. As a powerlifter, you are immediately stronger if you can control your breath while attempting a heavy lift as it helps you to tighten your muscles and generate more strength. What the mind believes, the body can achieve and having a motivational mantra helps with motivation when lifting heavy and when I am scared of the weights. Keeping your head held high when “hitting the wall” if you are a runner, or when you are battling your own insecurities, is important as it helps you to focus on what you are aiming to try and achieve. What I have learned from Paula as runner has transcended into my powerlifting and into my career. She is an inspirational mentor and coach with the ability to help people fight the invisible mind battles, what we have with ourselves, and that sometimes keeps us back from achieving our dreams. It is a privilege to know Paula and to see the results and impact that she has on your life. Mariska Casey – SA powerlifting record holder (2015 & 2016) 05/15/2016
The often quoted definition of insanity i.e. ‘expecting a different result when following the same pattern of behaviour that lead to previous failures” has always haunted me. Working with Paula over the last year has taught me to try things from a different angle and with a different frame of mind. Her comment that “failure” is in fact “feedback” is a prudent one. Paula’s ability to coach me to deal with the challenges of life has been invaluable. She has armed me with the tools to embrace the challenges of balancing sporting aspirations, heading up a family and managing a business. There are many hurdles to clear in life but it helps when you
have practical coaching techniques to meet the challenges head on. I have always admired Paula’s determination and character that she has displayed in a professional and sporting capacity and I would highly recommend her to anyone that seeks some guidance in taking on life’s challenges. Trevor Taylor – Managing Director, Chartered Employee Benefits 10/05/2015
Embracing Conflict Testimonials
Hi Paula. I’ve enjoyed reading your book Embracing Conflict and the exercises. I really like your idea of embracing conflict, too often we try to run away from it and hide from it but it just comes back to bite us in worse ways. Knowing that conflict is a normal part of life is helping me deal with mine. – Susan 07/16/2016