Hi there, my name is Paula Quinsee and I am your go to Relationship Warrior. I am a passionate advocate for healthy relationships and I provide hope, structure and direction for everyone I work with.

I work with people all over the world unpacking the many different aspects of their relationships, whether it be a relationship with their ‘self’ or relationships in their personal or professional worlds.

My passion and area of expertise includes understanding our relationship patterns, communication and conflict management, personal growth and development, emotional insights, behaviour profiling and much more.

Besides my professional qualifications, I am also an international speaker and author of 2x self-help guides: Embracing Conflict and Embracing No.

I have learned many lessons in my journey from my battle scars of losing my mother at 7yrs of age, sexual abuse, failed relationships, binge eating due to low self esteem and more, until I decided that my past does not get to define who I am, I do.
I am now following my passion and path of helping and empowering others to find their own voice…adding my bit of sparkle to the world.

Imago Relationship Therapy was my turning point

When I was introduced to Imago Relationship Therapy in 2006, I had hit rock bottom (listen to my story below) and my relationship and life was at an all time low.


I was astounded at how powerful Imago is and the insights I gained into how our upbringing shapes us, the person we become and the relationships we have. Our childhood is where the foundation of our emotional capabilities is formed, and it’s this ‘baggage‘ that we carry with us into our adulthood and throughout our lifetime.

I started my coaching journey in 2009 and have been working with individuals and organisations ever since. My focus and passion is working with people all over the world, whether that be in their personal capacity or with organisations who advocate for building healthy relationships, employee well-being and have a vested interested in personal growth and development.

I believe life is a lifelong journey of learning and I am continually enriching myself with beneficial knowledge and tools to make an even greater impact in the lives of the people and relationships I am blessed to work with.
  • Imago Relationship Therapy Educator
  • Imago Relationship Professional Facilitator
  • Completed Personal Development Programme
  • NLP (Neuro Linguistic Programming) Practitioner and Life Coach
  • Completed Mindsight and Interpersonal Neurobiology Training with Dr Dan Siegel
  • Completed Presenters Training with Hedy Schleifer.
  • Completed Deepening the Dialogue Training with Imago Africa.
  • Completed Courageous Coaching Training with Sue Wintgens
  • PDA Analyst and MyPDA Coach
  • LifeLine Counsellor
  • PDA and MyPDA Coach Trainer
  • Brene’ Brown Dare To Lead Trained
  • SABPP HR Associate (membership no 49844376)
  • WeConnect International Member (membership No. 201700187)



I am also a competitive athlete and adventure seeker

Sport and an active lifestyle is my happy place and here you will often find me competing in several adventures such as:

The Comrades Marathon (14th overall/ 10th SA lady – 2009), Two Oceans Marathon (15th overall/11th SA lady – 2010), cycled from Sun City to Cape Town for charity, climbed Mount Kilimanjaro and walked the Inca Trail to Machu Picchu in Peru to mention a few.

I therefore know what it takes to set goals and the discipline, focus and motivation it takes to achieve your dreams and goals. Inspiring, motivating and touching people’s lives is my passion.

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